I guess the underlying message here is if you are lucky enough to have extended family utilise them. If you are lucky enough to be a grandparent be prepared to be utilised!

Warm Wishes
Andrea

Been putting some though into my response to the importance of Grandparents in a relationship.

Acknowledging first of all, that they could of course be a source or part of a relationship difficulty, which is a different post/blog.

A new baby often comes at a time when money is short, working hours are long, mum and dad are often tired, whilst at the same time getting used to a changed family dynamic with all the stuff you describe above.

Being a Grandparent is unbelievably different for me. A fellow counsellor said to me “It’s like falling in love again isn’t it”. At least for me they were spot on, I’m besotted and I have time to enjoy my Grandchildren, when I choose to do so. (We did make it clear that we have our own life and retain the option to say no). I hope I offer a love to the children different to that of a parent, also offering something to the family relationship that is special to me, so I hope is special to them.

I remember how as a young father, baby screaming and wife with a touch of baby blues, I picked up the phone to my mother In Law, who drove down and whisked baby away for an hour or so. Not long, but just enough time to partly recharge the batteries.

I tried to write this in a general way, finding it impossible, so I apologise if I’ve stereotyped this. I’m also aware that some. All I know is that I’m saddened by the diminished role of the grandparent in society. All that experience and practical help that can be available.

Welcome to the blog. Thanks for sharing the post.

Warm Wishes

Andrea

This is a really helpful article. So many couples lose each other when they start a family. Tweeting it for others to read.

Thanks

Wendy

Thanks for sharing the post. I’d be very happy to review your book.

Warm Wishes

Andrea

I like your blog and tweeted the link to my followers. I have a new book coming out in September called ‘I love you but you always put me last: How to childproof your marriage’. If you’d like a copy to review, let me know and I’ll get you an advance copy.

Yours

Andrew

Much easier being a grandparent and very different. How about a blog from that angle?