It is a fact that therapy can help turn things around in a dramatic way in terms of stress and satisfaction with sharing housework/childcare. In just a few sessions, your relationship can be transformed, and you can be enjoying the benefits of your relationship again.
One of the powerful images of counselling is active listening. Careful listening and speaking can make it easier to see yourself and your partner in a clearer and more honest light, and to realise that you both have strengths as well as weaknesses. Counselling can assist couples develop a "conscious relationship" by revealing relationship patterns, as well as healing wounds. This self-knowledge can then help to ignite greater understanding and tolerance of each other.
With a sympathetic counsellor you can resolve difficulties and enhance your relationship by developing communication and conflict resolution skills in a way that suits both of you.